How can i get my stuff back from someone out of state?

I've been trying for months to get my belongings back from an ex who lives out of state. I have written him several times on and off over the months requesting he return my stuff to me, i have been very nice about the situation and even my parents have mentioned to him a couple of times that i needed to get my stuff back from him. The problem though is that he will not speak to me no matter how many times i write him or what i say. It has been almost two years since we broke up, and like i said i have been trying for months and months on and off to get everything back to me. I don't know if i even have any rights to my stuff anymore since he has had it for so long. I am getting fed up with the whole situation and without me actually going to the state myself to retrieve it i am at a loss for what else i can do. I am willing to pay the expenses to have everything returned. It is unclear to me why he is refusing to deal with the situation or even respond to my attempts to contact him. I don't know if he is still bitter because i broke up with him or if he has already gotten rid of my things and just wont admit it. Whatever the reason, i just want my stuff back. Everything i owned at the time are the items in question (shoes,clothes,purses,yearbooks,boxes of irreplaceable pics from my childhood,dishware,small furniture items.) It may seem pointless to keep pursuing the situation after so long, but those items belong to me, they are mine, i want them back. What if anything can i do about this?????

Could I have IC? Or am I nuts.?

I grew up with constant bladder infections and would be brave and take my pills and go to the dr and do tests everytime. But as I got older I got sick of it, and having to go back in and be examined everytime. I read about IC with bladder pain and have thought maybe its something I might have. The last infection I had, I left untreated and I had it for maybe 3 weeks. You may say that was wrong, I basically cried all day on the bathroom floor chugging cranberry and azo. Now, everytime I am about to have my special lady time, I go pee and right after its like someone is punching down on my bladder and it's a horrible feeling exactly like a bladder infection. It goes away with an azo and some rest but then it will be back the next day probably. I also get a little more swollen in the stomach even when I am not pmsing which makes me think it could also be linked to IC. I'm not sure if this is related but years ago I went to penn state because I was having cysts on my ovaries and not just regular one or two but MANY. And theyd pop so my mother, at the time I was 13, took me there after being told they couldn't diagnose me with PCOS. I know it may have nothing to do with it but I worry that it may. The funny thing is, the IC diet says cranberries irritate the problem which makes all my lifes beliefs of chugging watered cranberry crap. Anyway I prefer if only someone with the problem or has deep knowledge answers.

I let my first love slip away from me?

it was the end of my highschool career, i had only been going to this new shcool for one year and i had always loved this one girl who was in atleast 4 of my classes. i never built up courage to talk to her and because i was new i had no one that knew her, as the end of the year approached i started feeling sad about never seeing her again so i decided to tell her how i felt at graduation. know that i have never actualy talked to this girl and i was just taking a lucky shot at telling her how i felt after the graduation alone. i told her she was beautiful and that it wouldnt feel right going into the real world with out conquroing something that made me nervous, she was flattered and thanked me and said i was real nice for saying such kind words to some one who could use them. i never expected anything to happen, simply because we barely knew each other and the fact were going to different colleges but i cant help but shake the fact that if i had the courage i had today to talk to her in the beggining of the year i would be with her right now and happy. i look back on it and i regret not doing so early. but all this taught me a GREAT lesson, i will NEVER put off talking to a chick whom i like/love, i feel like there is an empty spot in my heart but it was supose to happen for me to learn this lesson. i try to forget her but i always think about her and it makes me sick. i feel brave that i told her how i felt, and humbled but still hurt that i never got hte chance with her. is it ok to feel this way?

How to be brave at a amusement park?

Just dont think about the ride, if it wasnt safe they wouldnt let people on. That usually helps me. Sorry if it doesnt!

BGT - OMG what was up with that man's singing voice....?

He sounded like that farmer from Napolean Dynamite, surprised he didn't get buzzed. He looked like a living corpse.

Is it possible to connect my desktop's tower to my laptop for its video card?

i have an old windows xp tower in my room, and wondered if i could buy a new video card for the tower and hook the tower up to my laptop because im trying to play crysis 2 on my laptop but i need a better video card, and my laptop card is irreplaceable.

Read my story? Suggestions for a twist?

wow a really great story heres a twist she mets a guy okay and then the guy has a child but no wife. so she finds out his son is blake from the adoption:D plz keep writing its really good